tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1336699250133682306.post4739195333828678478..comments2023-07-05T16:07:24.358+08:00Comments on maliemania!: get me out of heremaliemaniahttp://www.blogger.com/profile/16965517212524636313noreply@blogger.comBlogger4125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1336699250133682306.post-85096541889119567942014-06-05T10:53:53.576+08:002014-06-05T10:53:53.576+08:00that is a pretty deep analogy, one really worth th...that is a pretty deep analogy, one really worth thinking about. i guess we should always think of ourselves in those kind of situations to really understand why people do what they do. thank you for reminding me of that :)<br />and that is a great piece of writing, i wish you could leave me a link to your blog so that i could read it. i really appreciate this, thank you and may He bless you too :)maliemaniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16965517212524636313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1336699250133682306.post-87356652329074282402014-06-04T23:04:51.193+08:002014-06-04T23:04:51.193+08:00The thing is, I don't hate dogs, only that the...The thing is, I don't hate dogs, only that these stray dogs that lingering around my neighbourhood are kinda dangerous. They sometimes attack my cats to death, and until now, the total of our cats death due to it is 4. We know that 'kittens' are still in their growing up phase (such as climbing, running, etc). I have to admit that I always feel guilty and sad (like seriously very sad) to cage my kitten (a male). But people said, better prepare for the worse. The only thing I could do is to cage my kitten, as for his protection against those dangerous dogs. And even if I want to uncage him for sometime to feel the fresh air and let him learn to run and climb, I would stay near and be around just to be sure. Until the right time then, I promise, I promise, I promise, I will let my kitten (at that time not a kitten anymore, but already a cat) be free. <br /><br />I don't know but I hope you see my point here. And thank you, you've inspired me to write something related to this thingy on my blog. God bless, Kamalia ;)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1336699250133682306.post-51858273214738250162014-06-02T21:14:57.617+08:002014-06-02T21:14:57.617+08:00Waalaikumsalam sis,
masyaAllah thank you very much...Waalaikumsalam sis,<br />masyaAllah thank you very much for those reminders. i guess i didn't think of looking at it that way, even when i tried to understand. i know its all for the best, but tah i guess something happened just now and naturally i'd think negative first, and later baru those negativity fade. its my way of dealing with my own temporary sadness i guess. alhamdulillah you're helping ease the pain and making me be more redha with the situation :) Despite the negativity of this post, im glad you got to remind yourself about the positivity behind it too, hence sharing it with me. i truly appreciate it, may Allah ease everything for you sis <3maliemaniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16965517212524636313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-1336699250133682306.post-80488483128483418352014-06-02T20:43:18.658+08:002014-06-02T20:43:18.658+08:00Assalamualaikum, Kamalia. Well, first of all, I gu...Assalamualaikum, Kamalia. Well, first of all, I guess that you're not alone..<br /><br />I have been and probably still am in the same situation as you. I have voiced out to my parents about wanting 'freedom' but the response that I always receive is that the reason of them doing everything that we deem as 'suffocating' at times is simply because they love us. Initially, I didn't understand any of the rationality behind everything they did but when I look at it from their perspective, they are just trying to be the best parents that they can be. I once argued with my dad about how overprotective both my parents are although I'm already gonna turn 20 next year... Well, my dad's response was 'you girls and ur mother are all that I have in this world and until my very last day, I will be your overprotective father simply because I love you'.<br /><br />Well, kamalia, all I can say is that we just have to try to view the actions of our parents frm a different perspective. Firstly, remember that not everyone has parents and we don't know when Allah will take them away from us. And, naturally, some day we will have to move out from home kan? So, let's appreciate being around our parents while we can :)<br /><br />Secondly, Allah is the best of planners. Who knows that the future which awaits us is better than the present that we once dreamt of having? Maybe you are not getting the chance to explore the world right now because something greater has been planned for you, In Shaa Allah. He knows best, kan?<br /><br />Everything I have said above is a reminder to myself as well. Sometimes, I do get slightly depressed of not being allowed to do certain things by parents. Just read some Quran, pray to Allah and In Shaa Allah, you will get back up smiling :)<br /><br />Cheer up, sister!<br />Uhibbukifillah <3Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com